The real question is why you're singing "songs for veterans day" in the first place.

I can think of two or three reasons, but the only one that's any good is "to honor our veterans."

But the only songs that are especially appropriate to Veterans' Day are either "patriotic" or "antiwar." (There are silly marching songs like "I Don't Want No More Army Life," but I doubt that's what most people on this thread have in mind.)

Either kind is likely to offend or annoy somebody, including veterans.