Morticia, in my heart, I agree he needs a lesson. Fifty five years old & no one has straightened him out, so maybe it won't destroy the family. L.R> Mole : this is a whole new insight for me. In a way, he sold out all these years of caring and sharing that we've had. He is gay and I can't tell you how many times I've defended him when rel- atives would bash him.So he's taken more then my money. Thank you all. Mickey191