Mickey191 no offense but I'm amazed you believed he was going to kill himself.Even if he had it wouldn't have been your fault and any rational person would come to that conclusion imo.It takes a lot for someone to get around to taking their own life and not getting a loan from a relative isn't generally high on the list of reasons for suicide.If you felt that strongly about some questions never being asked you wouldn't have given him the money.The main difference between you and I is one of discernment.