...makes you
more compassionate,
more sensible,
more detached,
more loving,
more humanitarian,
more responsible,
more ethical.쳌

Those are values, and, sorry to break it to you all, but there are a lot of people who reject them, and not just in practice--I have heard them decried by strident intellectuals as "bourgeois values" and by certain others as 'decadent" and "weak"--