Here's the thing: When you're that mad you're generally powerless because of your own guilt. Guilt for being mad, not for wanting a solo. You need to speak up and tell her that you don't think it's fair. I think you should do it in front of the whole group. Be prepared to be the only one who feels that way. But don't be surprised if others join in too.

There's nothing wrong with singing solo. Oh, you're ego might be involved, but you and the Lord can work that stuff out in private. You're unhappy about what you percieve to be an unfair situation. Nothing wrong with speaking up. If you're angry and can't cool down, just apologise for your anger, and I bet it will be overlooked. That's my idea. I hope you do let us know what you decide and how you do. Margo