The ex-wife left Santa Cruz in 1989. Who was even around to know or say she was "difficult". And the difficulty must have been great indeed. Why not come out and say what you are implying. From what I know she was always extremely supportive of her husband's career. If you know of anything to the contrary, please share. What people don't know is that Bob erased all evidence of ever having a first wife. So he wouldn't have spread stories about a difficult first wife. Those years of his life were dead and buried. By the way, I'm sorry for your sad story, but you have offered very little in the way of compassion. Ask Haley when she found out about the first wife.