You are a one, John, cos I'm now thinking hard about what this could be. As a fly, I'm well caught in your trap. Could you be waiting for a thread to go on for 48hrs with nobody being nasty or insulting, no vituperative insults being thrown and no long and boring slanging match between two or three sworn enemies? Or waiting for someone to say something nice? If the latter, I find there are dozens and dozens of lovely people here who are interesting and kind, and nice things are to be read daily. (PS Glad you're not in any difficulties or serious problems in your life. Thank you for reassuring me!)