I don't often subscribe to generalisations. There are always so many exceptions to the 'rule'. I would say I'm quite a secure, assertive and maybe even a bit bossy person. I'd be the one to intervene or challenge in a situation out in public (eg litter droppers, rudeness to elderly people, dirty tables in a cafe, bewildered tourists etc) I like to think of myself as an old matriarch elephant (and I have the fat bum to prove it) Yet my phobile moan (hate the things) is a cheap and tacky Nokkia, just for car breakdowns. My handbag is very small with only bare essentials inside. I have a very small TV, as I prefer to read. I like neat, unobtrusive and tidy little things. So for me, size is important - ie Small is Good. (except my rear end, which is decidedly a Bit Large)