Diabetes can become very serious very quickly. If your medical problem has become worse recently, I would call a doctor right today, unless you are absolutely sure that you have no disease. If it is in fact diabetes, medication will relieve you of your urination problem and other symptoms.

When you have dealt with that side of the problem, consider what Stim wrote. Conflicts can be defused without giving up one's rights. (This lesson is yet to be learned by other Mudcat posters as well.)