And as far as I'm concerned, the jury can stay out. I have no problems, Akenaton, with you making (and even sharing on this thread) any judgments about me. We all have judgments.

And yes, as I read various posts my head gets filled with judgments.   I try not to take them too seriously, and instead, try to turn them into 'curiosities'. Sometimes I'm successful....sometimes not.

But most importantly......I have to tell myself that they are just 'judgments' that probably reveal a little bit about the person I'm judging.......and a lot about myself.