I don't pretend to know what goes on in the mind of a 14 yr. old girl

I have no real proof, gillymor, but I am pretty sure it will be a very similar thing that goes on in the mind of a 14 year old boy, but more sensible :-) And I DO know what goes on in the mind of a 14 year old boy because I was one, albeit a long time ago, and I cannot believe a 14 year old in 2013 is vastly different to a 14 year old in 1967. Which was, if I remember rightly, the summer of love!

Cheers

DtG