So, Joe Offer, a bigot is someone who doesn't entirely go along with your cosy and unreal view of a life that cuddles up with religion. Well here's what I think. You're the bigot. You're the guy who "educates" his children within a religion that they were born into by pure chance, then makes a ton of excuses along the lines of giving them get-outs if they want them (which you probably hope they won't want). You're the guy who shuts a part of his mind off to evidence because you think there's "a greater truth". Actually, I could do a deal with you: stop calling me a bigot because I have the temerity to question your religion in a somewhat forthright way, and I'll stop calling you a bigot for embracing delusion and passing it on to the next generation.