Musket, thanks for taking the trouble to repeat your earlier statement, which I had understood alright. Unfortunately you dodged my question, essentially: if you had had the choice at your second wedding, would you have insisted on a genuine priest/minster, thus a Christian believer, or would you have preferred a good actor in a gown, who may share your own convictions? And why? Don't bother with moral justifications; the question is interesting in itself.

(That BHA organization only serves as an example that such services exist, not requiring any membership. Customers will be asked what they want to hear; KJV Canticles would be no problem.)