Claire, I used to have a cat called Oscar too! And my present 3, Smoky, Murphy & Minty, all spray if I don't keep a sharp eye on them. I believe men could quite easily sit down to wee, but my husband thinks I'm mad if I suggest it. At least he puts the seat down afterwards, bless him. Another thing men seem to do more than women is pick their noses. You see them in cars busy as bees, having a good old pick, but women don't seem to indulge so often.