Interesting article this morning in the Daily Mail (I know, I know, but I like the puzzles pages) about a lady of middle age who had quite a long relationship with a British chap but didn't use any protection. He ended the relationship and she became ill. Luckily her savvy doctor tested her for HIV and the poor woman was shocked to find she had contracted it. She had felt that at her age STDs aren't an issue, especially not HIV, and as the man hadn't been in an 'at risk' category it hadn't crossed her mind. Just shows that no matter who is having sex with whom, protection is essential. It would be very difficult to insist on a new partner having an HIV test (or any STD test) before going ahead with a sexual relationship. But really, it would seem prudent. The lady is having retro-viral medication and will have a normal life and lifespan, but sadly, people have asked her not to come to their house or go near their children as they are afraid of the disease.