Yesterday my twins brought home candles they had made in kindergarten, we lit them and placed them in our lovely snow, and sat in the cold and dark and admired the warmth and light. I didn't know about this till this morning either. I will do that every night (sorry I can't stay up till midnight) and think of Patrick, Brendan, Bretta and Wes. May the outcome be one of light and warmth for all of them.