The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #153992   Message #3613358
Posted By: Bat Goddess
28-Mar-14 - 09:15 AM
Thread Name: Spring Cleaning, Declutter & Fitness 2014
Subject: RE: Spring Cleaning, Declutter & Fitness 2014
Got slammed with a piece of bad news at the beginning of the grief group meeting -- Hyder Family Hospice House, owned by Amedisys is closing.

Hyder House

I cannot explain how incredibly caring, respectful, and sensitive they were to Tom...and to me and our friends. They are amazing and special people. I'm devastated. They helped to make a complicated time into a life affirming and sacred experience.

I likened what they do to what a good instrumental accompanist does…the audience is barely aware of it, but everything, every note, is to enhance the performer. The accompanist is almost invisible…but without the accompanist, everything falls apart.

Everyone showed so much CARING and respect and sensitivity. What strong people they are to do this every day for so many patients transitioning to the next stage of the cycle of life – which we call death. And for their family and friends.

I couldn't have done any of that alone and at home. I am just gobsmacked that the parent company is closing this less than seven-year-old facility that does so very much good.

Linn