It's neither a point-and-stare thread nor a debate. Thank goodness--a rare bit of actual discussion. It also proves that the contributors affect the direction of a thread more than the originator.

George Papavgeris's song on YouTube Toni With an "i".

I think people may not know how to act, and rather than trying to just BE and get over the discomfort, they lash out at the object of their digruntlement.

Mauvepink, I have to ask, did you mean F2M or the other way 'round. I'm confused. (Not a totally unfamiliar state for me.) Thanks.