I don't consider it "reasonable" to make direct, specified and named accusation of playing one member against another and then refusing to back it up with examples

Is this an accusation against me, Jim? If so, for heaven sakes, say so. Why do you insist on disguising everything to the extent that people do not actually know what you are referring to? And also, if so, please provide, as per your instructions, examples of the same.

DtG