Who knows or cares who is gay, within the parameters of this thread? I suppose there is no point my pleading that we might just go back to the topic of my OP, re the sometimes equivocal choice of vocabulary in posts on this forum, and continue the entirely irrelevant thereto gay marriage debate which is some people's peculiarly pertinacious King Charles' Head, by refreshing one of the approx 765+ threads which have run on that topic already -- or even starting a new one?

Thought not. Still, worth a try...

Or not...

Ho-hum! Think I'll go back to bed...

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