Hi, Widowmaker -
Can you post what you have so we can work with you to figure out the rest? Here are a couple of YouTube videos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lbC8mI4OxIc (Australia)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWYAYGpAqWQ (Live in Warsaw 18 Mar 2012)


The song was written by Eleanor McEvoy and introduced on her 2006 album, Out There. It's also on her 2013 album titled Singled Out and on an album titled 25 by Carrantouohill with a lead singer who sounds suspiciously like Eleanor McEvoy. Great song. I can think of a lot of people it applies to...

Here's what I found online so far:
http://askville.amazon.com/song-wrong-places-title-Darlin'-suffered-ther/AnswerViewer.do?requestId=89675381


Oh Darlin, suffered so well
There you were a sufferin and I couldn't even tell
Oh you suffered so well
Everyone's impressed
Now you tell me underneath
If you hadn't told me, I never would have guessed
Oh you suffered so well
Oh Darlin' suffered so well, there you were a sufferin
and I couldn't even tell
depths of hell
Oh you suffered so well
If you hadn't said so
Never would have known
That all those nights I called you up
And thought you wern't at home