Jim Carroll
contributors to this site have made it clear that they see no objection to it.
Really? I thought the majority opinion was agin it.

Because it doesn't happen at your club doesn't mean it doesn't happen.
Just because it happens doesn't make it "common practice". What gives you the impression it was?

The 'role models' (what and whoever they are) that I know didn't do it.
Er? Peggy Seeger?