Funny, I'm sure I posted here and saw it take.

I'd have thought that folk music would be a good place to look. Many men, few women, and most of both over 50. Also most are not "conservatives" - a definite plus.

I would suggest "online dating" too. Just be careful who you go to meet, where and when, and have an exit strategy until you know each other tolerably well. Going on an anti-austerity demo together is a good safe option!

I'd also suggest that many men remain horizontally capable to much older than 60 - and have learned that there is more than one way to skin a cat and that women should be pleasured too. I'm reasonably sure there are accredited cases of fatherhood at 80.

I'd agree that most older English men do not wear wedding rings. Indeed any rings apart from signet rings. Avoid anyone wearing a sovereign ring or sovereign medallion.