ad ho·mi·nem
/ad ˈhämənəm/
adverb & adjective
1. (of an argument or reaction) arising from or appealing to the emotions and not reason or logic. ; adjective: ad hominem
"vicious ad hominem attacks"
2. relating to or associated with a particular person.

An ad hominem (Latin for "to the man" or "to the person"), short for argumentum ad hominem, is a general category of fallacies in which a claim or argument is rejected on the basis of some irrelevant fact about the author of or the person presenting the claim or argument.

I closed the last thread because it had reduced to a he said/she said series of running ad hominem attacks against Lizzie. It seems no good deed goes unpunished, here is Lizzie starting another thread on the same topic so more people can badger her. The topic was Rolf Harris, so why on earth is Lizzie's married life coming into this?

Resume your conversation.