Skip the (*&%#$ shrink. They aren't worth the parchment in most cases.Grab yourself by the collar and go out and learn something different. Really different. Learn to weld, or do HTML or clog dance or nursing injections or Mac maintenance or breadboard cirtcuit soldering, or SCUBA dive or fly a plane, as long as it is different. Kick your butt along until you start getting the hang of whatever it is. Don't take NO for an answer.
Then lemme know how its going.
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