Rick & Amergin thanks for your thoughts. It has not been easy.
At this point my friend can not make sense of anything. It was horrible timing and came out of left field.
All he can do is cry.
Amergin, as for making him feel like he is still lovable, appreciated and cared for well...... there is a limit.
He is an old boyfriend and I think he would like more comfort than I am prepared to offer.
I will try to find him a good marriage counselor or therapist. He needs to talk with a professional. He also could use a good ear and friendship which I am more than happy to offer.
Its interesting, the man owns half of Toronto, lives in a palace and has a 'picture perfect home'. It has been a rude awakening for him that having all the money in the world means little when your world is falling apart.

Bonnie