Be careful Bonnie..you are in a very dangerous spot. Matt, I have often wondered the same thing, so, I started asking how come? Did you ever hear the song Raggle Taggle Gypsies? the lady runs off with the gypsy and leaves her rich husband, baby and great house with a feather bed. I've been told it is a matter of needing a challenge, and, a need to play with fire. Kate Wolf sang a song which touched on it....some kind of love tears your heart, when you knew it was wrong from the start..but, try and explain the moth to the flame...

After years of self examination, I came to the conclusion that I am only attracted to intelligent women. The problem is, if they are bright enough to attract me, they are also bright enough to avoid me..

Anyway, Bonnie, this man is going to go through hell, and all his friends can only listen and try to support his smashed self esteem. Sounds like she is the future loser, and will come to regret her move. She really should hav eased into it instead of dropping a bomb. Not nice.