I can see your frustration Rahere but you are being a little unfair. I have twins and when they were little I would have given anything to be able to get them on a bus, fold the trolly and sit with them on my knee. But on my own it was very difficult if not downright impossible at times. I am not a "Vicky Pollard" as you put it and do not expect anything but it would be nice to be given some consideration occasionally and not be tutted at or scorned as a lazy scrounger.