Perhaps the core issue is how one conceives of "another Mudcatter" (regardless of who). I used to approach anyone n this forum from a starting position of respect as a sort of first-contact rule of engagement. I made lots of friends in various degrees, and I still try to cleave to the principle.

It seems to me that others choose a different "first position" when they open the forum--namely one of ready antagonism and the will to do battle.

This (to my mind) is a fatal error.

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