I think the main thing with this is that marriage must be recognized in all states. If a couple is married in Vermont and go to a state that previously didn't allow same sex marriage, that state can't refuse to see that couple as married.

Well I don't think that's the main thing at all. The main thing is that you should have the right to get married in whatever state you happen to want to get married in.

The can bitch about it, much like some people will in this thread, until Hell freezes over... because that's all they CAN do at this point. Bitch, troll, and try to get everyone else's panties in a bunch because theirs are.

The sooner you realise that your coming here to moan that people who are expressing their opinions are "bitching" and "trolling", rather than expressing your own constructive opinion (or simply staying quiet if you can't be nice), the sooner your dyspepsia will settle down and the better this place will be. You really do need to calm down.