Sorry, small error that might be taken as deliberate.

At least you could never accuse me of that Jim.
I wonder who you did mean.

Dave,I cannot tell whether any allegation made on here is substantiated or not.

Of course you can!
Suppose you were accused of child abuse.
Unless the accuser produced court reports or some other evidence, it would be an unsubstantiated accusation, but hard for you to disprove it.
And, why should you have to?

I would not approve os someone doing that to you and would make my feelings known.
I am disappointed that you would not do the same yourself.