That's a very wise post. It's amazing how some people automatically see anything to do with sex 'n' relationships as a big moral issue into which they can poke their noses (and have their own motives seriously questioned by the more enlightened among us!). I heard today of a young woman who was at school with my son 20 years ago who has married another woman, and the they are both having IVF, using the eggs of just one of them, to have children. I can just imagine their future household to be the happiest imaginable. Brilliant stuff. BGosh, I do need to keep up!