I don't think I promote ideas like that, Ake. I do accept them and am in agreement, though. And the reason is that blooming second greatest commandment "Love your neighbour as yourself". It is a lifelong task to try and understand what that means, and a great many times you have to look back and say, yep, I got that one wrong. But a good starting point is always to say If that was me, how should I be treated"   It's not infallible of course, but in the case of gay marriage I find it clear enough.