Hallelujia. All family members finally on board re Mom's care. Not so sure if we can get sis to understand how Mom's care is dependent on sale of house and car. But at least we are all talking and not name calling.

My baby brother who is fostering my sister's grandkids, just lost his job (HVAC licensed so another job will come) and the medical insurance for his family and the little bit in food stamps they were getting. So now he has to apply all over again. His lounge/diner is a consturction site because he had started to make a room for mom. Now he has no means to put it right.

My other younger brother is about to be evicted and his car died. He is on disability due to degenerative bone disease in his spine and all right side.

My older brother just diagnosed with protate cancer and he is sole breadwinner (musician in Orlando). He only just got med insurance but does not know how long he can pay for it. His wife has had a stroke.

My daughter was released from 3 week stay in hospital for cellulitis and extremely low platelets. Lupus attack on her spleen again.

There are problems with our house purchase. I won't go into what the stress of worrying about eveyone is doing to my body.

Anyone know how to lift a decades long curse from an extended family scattered halfway across the globe?