I fear Mauvepink that with some on this forum you are wasting your time and energy.

Most of us are quite happy that you live whichever life you choose. Good luck to you.

However some would insist that your lifestyle is an aberration and should not even be talked about, even less allowed.

I see repeatedly their distaste, even hatred, of your choice.

If you can, I should advise you to ignore them and their ignorance.