From Ake: "I'm sure Joe did not mean his remark to be taken personally you are too quick to jump into "highly offended mode""

The post from Joe read: "Try having sex with somebody you really love, Raggytash. Then maybe you'll understand how sex can (and should) be sacred"

Just how more personal can you get than to mention someone by name.

You are correct about one thing though Ake, I am highly offended.