15+ years ago, there was This thread on similar topics. Scroll way down to
Subject: RE: BS: The Other Breast
From: Bill D - PM
Date: 27 Jul 00 - 07:33 PM
where I noted a book I own. It started quite a discussion between myself & katlaughing. I'm sorta sorry now that she never got to see the book.

Even then it was difficult to keep the posts 'light'. It seems some men simply can't handle the topic without drifting into salacious mode. It's too bad, because as this thread shows, there are times to 'appreciate' and times when the issue is...different.
I am male... I can admire & appreciate... but I CAN turn off that mode. I spent 2 days telling myself I would NOT post, but 50+ years of commiserating with various women about their problems with comfort levels leads me to post my hopes that from here on, we can allow women.. those who care to... to share information without smarmy remarks and bad jokes.

*further, deponent sayeth not*

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Ironic. What goes around, comes around. Eventually. --mudelf