No, I am not saying that at all. all I was hoping to convey is that for some people this is not a moral or religious issue, but an emotional one. perhaps we should be less crude in our responses without compromising our belief in woman's right to choose. I do not believe that women make this choice lightly and often they involve family members who often don,t agree with them.That can cause great grief to all concerned and I think it might be little kinder to try to see that than just being a smart arse about it.