Liquid valium, dear lady, intravenously.

Otherwise, a glass or two of an evening, with good conversation or reading. I prefer the small barrel, single malt Scotch or Irish, and the small barrel/small batch bourbons. A good cognac or port is also quite nice. 25 year old Talisker or 39 year old Glenfiddich, Pappy Van Winkle's Family Reserve, Remy Martin Louis XIII "Black Pearl" cognac, Dunville's VR Irish, perhaps some Taylor's Fladgate 1863 single harvest tawny port -- I'm certain you know.