I suspect that we all form opinions or views of people we interact with here, much the way we do in the real world. There are some we like, some we don't, and some for whom we just don't form an opinion at all. But this is not a destination site for people seeking sex, and the topic seems never to arise in a solicitation mode. There are many fine contributors here whose gender is unknown, and unimportant to their mudcat participation. I can say that I love most of the people here, but don't have sexual fantasies about them (well, except, maybe, for-- ):>)

Our band is booked to play a wedding recption for a couple who met on-line. I've met them both in the real world, think highly of them, and wish them the best of luck.