well excuuuuuuuuuuse me...

my confusion, in my hopefulness I took the post questions to be "to me (and people like me who hold their tongues)". It appears the questions were not "to me" but "at them." I offered the word "sympathetic" and right away the questions stop and the name-calling starts. I can't even say which of the names has anything to do with my vote. That's me out of here.