The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #159890   Message #3789660
Posted By: Joe Offer
10-May-16 - 05:32 PM
Thread Name: BS: How to be good at conversation
Subject: RE: BS: How to be good at conversation
I like Headlee's ingredients of a great conversation: Honesty, brevity, clarity and a healthy amount of listening. I tried to do that and teach that to new employees in my 30 years of interviewing witnesses in government security clearance investigations. I called myself a "professional gossip," but my trick was to listen a lot and not say much - and to write what I heard in my reports, but never repeat it otherwise.

-Joe-