In one respect I understand this discussion being in the BS/non-music section. It reminds me of Courtney Love, becoming a widow under the most hideous circumstances, and remember when she took to social media? Of late Love is quieter, she must have wised up to the consequences of venting in public. Of course I wish for these two women to heal, recover, and prosper; it is sad that they must learn the hard way not to confuse getting-it-out-of-one's-system with shouting-it-from-the-housetops.