Androgyny and 'gender bending' were considerable cultural influences in my teens and early 20s...

All us young adults involved in music, art, and theatre back then were bound to have been influenced to some extent...

I was very skinny, had good cheekbones and reasonable 'boy band' looks and, very long hair.
The first girl I lived with was prone to wanting put makeup and her silk scarves on me when we were drunk...
I'd almost completely forgot how much fun & excitement it was back then.

To see me now, tired and boring, getting fatter and balder, and far more 'traditionally masculine' you would never imagine I was the same bloke...!!!??? 💋