the choice of form of address should be personal I am Mrs and quickly point out to those who try to insist I am ms that the only ms I know is marks and spencer the shop and that I am married even if my husband died. However I respect others right to be who they are.

A few years ago I wrote

Who am I ?
I am me
I am not you,
Your hopes,
Your dreams.
I am ME

I do not have to do what you want me to do
I do not have to be what you want me to be
I am ME

Not some poor imitation of you
I am unique, a genuine one-off me
I am ME.
.............

Be you but be tolerant of genuine mistakes.