I don't think anyone should be bullied into wearing a poppy. Some people don't seem to realise this choice is the sort of freedom we were supposed to be fighting for. However, there is an alternative to the red poppy if it offends you: the white Peace poppy sold by the Peace Pledge Union.

RtS
(who as a wishywashy liberal, sorta Quaker who lost uncles in both World Wars will be wearing red to remember them and white to wish nobody else should have to die.)