Dunno, Al. I think that a few blokes fail to draw that line that says she's someone's little daughter, she's not worldly-wise like me, I'm in a position of power over her, she just might not enjoy what I'm going to do to her as much as I will, she can't react to me appropriately as she's not the sexual being that I am, what I do to her might radicalise her sexually, she might grow up to be long-term mortally ashamed and damaged in other ways because of what I've done....

I hear that casual sexual abuse of girls is frighteningly common. Could be that the vast majority of girls can shrug it off. But is that really any justification for it?