Gee, guys. Maybe people are individuals, varying widely in all sorts of traits, not defined by the shape of their gearboxes and exhaust pipes. Maybe a lot of our gender drama is a cultural overlay more based on a network of uninspected and less-than-rational expectations than any inherent character. And maybe genuine communication will always cut through the smoke and reach those who are capable of genuine communicatiion whether they are F, M, Bi, gay, or castrato...like certain possum people we know...