Big Al my grandparents faced the similar horrors as yours. Herded west and slaughtered by the Russians only to then be exterminated by the Nazi death squads. My dads parents came to America after more than half of the family were already murdered. They settled in Boston and their kids had to face neighborhood squabbles with the Irish. Being adopted I was a tow head with blue eyes and my wife is Irish. The violence done to our predecessors was not due to religion or looks, it was done by Tyrants and dictator's policy and new laws to take property.

Trump doesn't like criticism, no tyrant does. It is up to the Republicans to enforce the Constitution where Donald has already broken the Emollients clause.

You are right about the meme out there that says let it go, get over it and Ignore that press conference and Ignore that Women's March.
Ignore the super ego maniac behind the curtain. Ignore the defeat of any thing that helps the poor middle class and expands the treasure of billionaires.