:0) Yes your right Sen, I usually hold a door open or give way to a lady if we happen to meet at an entrance to a shop...I was brought up to defer in that way by my family.   Anyway about a year ago I was going into a shop in town when a lady appeared from inside carrying two large bags....I stepped back and held the door open, only to be subjected to a tirade of abuse from the "lady" who made it clear that she could manage "very effing well without being patronised by an effin man!!!

So in regard to fairness the rights issue is a quagmire, I fet that I had been unfairly abused and the lady thought she had been patronised......Ye cannae win...eh no?

And.....naw it wisnae Acme :0)